If a man says he doesn't have ual emotions for you what does that mean?

If you're married and the man you are with says he can't have because there are no ual emotions there from a mans point of view what does that mean? If he's in his late 40's and able to have and your married and says he loves me wouldn't he want ? Even if there are things that are stressing him out? For men isn't a stress release sometimes? How do I keep from wanting my husband when he doesn't want to have sex with me? Doesn't ruin the sexual build-up and anticipation for that special moment? For me every time he touches me I get turned on and now he doesn't want sex I just get more and more frustrated whenever he touches me. I don't want him to stop touching me because I love him but I don't want to be frustrated either. What should I do?